#316. Feared Manchester Doorman - Paul Brady

In this episode of the Eventful Lives Podcast, host Dodge Wooden interviews Paul Brady, a renowned doorman and DJ in the UK. Paul recounts his early days in Manchester, where he worked for a notorious figure, Paul Massey, and faced life-threatening situations that led him to leave the city. He reflects on the rise of gun violence in Manchester and his decision to step away from a dangerous path that could have resulted in incarceration or death.

Brady shares insights into being known as both a feared and respected doorman for three decades, emphasizing that he is simply a kind person trying to treat others with respect. He discusses the dualities of his life as a doorman and DJ, revealing the challenges of being pigeonholed into a singular persona by public perception.

Through a series of personal anecdotes, Brady highlights his struggles with racism and violence, as well as his encounters with drugs that led him down a dark path. He vividly remembers the highs of his DJing days and the accompanying lifestyle that included drug use and tumultuous parties. His story delves into personal relationships, including a critical bond with his sister, Claudette, who supported him during tough times.

Despite the drug-fueled chaos and legal troubles, including a dramatic incident of self-defense that led to an attempted murder charge, Brady's narrative is ultimately one of survival and resilience. He discusses how he rebuilt his life in Oxford after prison and returned to Bournemouth, navigating the tumultuous landscape of nightclub culture while earning respect as a DJ. The episode concludes with Brady expressing gratitude for the positive influences in his life and a willingness to share more stories, hinting at the complexity of his experiences while inviting listeners to consider a potential part two to his fascinating life story.